Gu Byeong-mo’s Your Neighbour’s Table unpacks the story of four couples who join an experimental government program that addresses Korea’s low birthrate. In exchange for a unit in a new apartment complex, the couples sign a pledge, promising to do their best to bear three children.
We first meet the members of this community when Yojin and her husband, Euno, become the fourth couple to arrive. The complex, located in the countryside, is called the Dream Future Pilot Communal Apartments. But tension is already simmering among the residents, betraying the name.
Dahui, the self-appointed leader, is outgoing and proactive, but her concern for her neighbors often crosses the line into meddling and nosiness. Hyeonae, who chose to return to work as an illustrator shortly after giving birth, struggles to meet deadlines as she takes care of her daughter while her husband is at work. She has little time or energy to contribute to the community. Yeosan and Gyowon have their own personal issues, but in such a small group of families, nothing can stay secret for long. Meanwhile, newcomers Yojin and Euno find themselves not quite fitting the mold; Yojin works while Euno is a stay-at-home dad. This soon leads to an uncomfortable situation when Euno volunteers Yojin to drive Jaegang, Dahui’s husband, to work after his car breaks down. Jaegang’s joking with Yojin seems to tiptoe the line between neighborly banter and outright flirting, and she soon begins to question her judgment.
The novel casts a light on important issues in modern Korean society: the rising cost of housing in Seoul, the excessively low birthrate, and the government’s seemingly haphazard responses. Ultimately these issues constitute the scaffolding for more fundamental human questions: What does it mean to be a mother or a father, and what does society expect and demand of each based on traditional gender roles? How does life change after children? Is it true that you only become an adult once you have children, and that everything before that is just “playing house,” as Yojin’s friends claim? Pressures, biological and cultural, weigh heavily on the characters, but it is not always clear how much of each.
The community is like a petri dish placed under a microscope. What happens when a small number of disparate personalities are put together in an isolated location? Despite best intentions, cracks soon begin to appear. Will the residents be able to patch them, or will the cracks widen into fault lines that shake the foundations of their carefully constructed but fragile world?
No matter how pressing the larger social issues may be, society is ultimately about individual people having to get along with one another. Gu’s examination of Korean society writ both large and small will leave readers pondering what it means to inhabit various roles in our modern world — as an adult, a parent, and ultimately, a human being.